Samaritan Monkey

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “A Moment in Time.”

Mind is a monkey is quoted often , most of the time to mean that mind can play havoc ! But look at this monkey that lent a hand just in time to two women struggling to get a job done.
A close look at the picture will reveal the flower of a plantain tree in the hands of the monkey. You would think the monkey intended to eat it , but no.
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The Samaritan Monkey

A group of about 20 of us were  at a temple in the outskirts of Chennai ( South India ) celebrating the 60th birthday of a family member. Rituals in full swing in one part of the temple while in the makeshift kitchen , frayed tempers as 2 cooks raced against time to whip up a festive meal. The supplies had come in late. The heat of the noon made it worse and amidst all this , a monkey that had perched itself on the roof of the kitchen swoops down , only to pick up the banana flower and a sheet of paper , trots away and seats itself where you see it in the pic.
Incidentally in South India , banana flower fritters are a delicacy that is served in festive meals. But our banana flower here was gone , no , going away ! We tried to scare the animal away in the hope of retrieving the flower , but the monkey ignored us ! Our helplessness or anger turned to amazement as the monkey started peeling segments of the flower and throwing them down on the paper that it had snatched from the kitchen ! In less than 5 minutes , the flower had been stripped of its segments ( our cooks would have needed half an hour ). And as we stood watching marveling at its dexterity , the ape chucked the stem of the flower across the wall , swung to the other pillar and made its way to I don’t know where.
Lost for words , we were. The banana flower fritters got made alright and they tasted special , the labour of the mammal had infused an extra dollop of yumminess !
Mr Monkey was the talk of the town for the next 2 days. Sheer coincidence that my earlier blog detailed the sensitivity of crows and now a monkey ! Some monkey behaviour , this !

Leave the Gym Resolutioners Alone

There are also the Monday to Wednesday resolutioners , so the serious gymmers have the gym to themselves for the rest of the week. Anyways the committed ones will always work through the most crowded of the spaces.

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We’ve all seen them. There could be one next to you right now on the treadmill holding on for dear life and hiking up a level 15 incline. You may have spotted one inquisitively eying a BOSU ball, wondering what manner of cruel and unusual punishment a semi-circle could possibly deliver. They’re the Resolutioners who have taken your gym by storm this January to get started on their weight loss and fitness goals, and they haven’t received the warmest of welcomes.

I used to be a Resolutioner. In fact, I can say with confidence that “losing weight” or “eating better” was probably my staple resolution from the year 2003 through 2011. When it comes to my New Year’s resolutions, it was probably only surpassed in frequency by “This year I’m going to have a boyfriend,” or “This year I’m committing to not being so quiet and weird.”

I never stuck to it. I’d show up to the…

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Iron Therapy : Machine and The Man

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My own paradise , my own simple home therapies to perk me up from those some deep down in the dumps moods. “Be my guest since you are already here and I shall give you a treat(ment)” , I say to them.
In moments like this , the ideal order of things I do would be hit the gym , head to my PC , switch on the ironing appliance. So basically it’s exercise , technology and a household chore that suddenly transforms into a mood lifter.
It is advised to take 2 of these for anger and mood management gym anger management
Well you give focus , determination and an extra pump of energy and lo and behold you have beaten stress , anger and low moods. Sounds like the thing to do.
Technology is always a high for me , so it’s got to counter the low (mood). You have the world at your fingertips , it throws challenges in your face every now and then , you find solutions and yay ! A sense of victory ! Mood uplifted !
And if it’s music you are working on , wow , it’s worth it. Downloading and adding music to my iPod is balmy. I am on track again.
But the ‘iron box’ , the box ness of which you could attribute to the iron boxes filled with red hot charcoal , you will say is like ‘piddly si baatein’ ( so mundane ) if you have heard the song from the Hindi movie #Shamitabh. But that’s precisely  why the iron is the star of my blog today , a mere iron is the hero or the heroine. Till my stint with #HomeNeedsOnline started , appliances were mere machines that switched on and off and did jobs for me. But my job as PR consultant for www.homeneedsonline.com brought in a passion for appliances unheard of in my dictionary. It’s not just appliances available at the click of a button and I have been clicking ever too often now , but the marvel at how much thought has gone into making each #HomeAppliance help make life so much  simpler !  And this iron box , it has been my favorite always and more so now.
So I turn it on and the yellowish orange indicator is the beginning of my stress fading away. Have you sensed that warm odour emanating from the hot ready iron ? No ? You notice things that you normally wouldn’t only when you are passionate about something. I lay a freshly washed shirt flat and attempt to smooth the creases with my hand , but nah. So pick up the hot iron , land it gently on the garment and ‘press’ the shirt as is usually referred to. As the stubborn creases do the vanishing act , my eyebrows loosen up and I can sense my expression becoming gentler. It helps that there is a mirror right in front of me. It gets even better when I use the steam option. As the vent spritzes out steam and the tiniest of water droplets , I am letting out steam too. My ironing board is laid out in my backyard overlooking a little garden ; soothing nature coupled with man’s invention. I sometimes move the ironing board indoors in the evenings when my son needs his clothes ironed at the last minute ( always) , switch on a mild yellow light in the room , turn on my favourite music , light an aroma candle and iron away to glory. I end up ironing more clothes than I set out to because it’s no longer a ‘need to do job’ but a ‘nice to do one’ . A huge sense of satisfaction to see that neatly ironed pile of clothes. Stress dissipated and a chore done in a breeze. I bounce back !!!!!
I have heard friends discussing how doing the laundry is therapeutic to some. Yes , right , it perhaps is the act of sorting out the clothes before feeding them into the washing machine akin to compartmentalising life’s issues. Then watching the clothes getting cleansed akin to the lows fading away !
Mechanical and Psychological ,
the Machine and the Man…….

Mister #Crow , Master #Crow

I am a Crow. My name is Bob. But the grand old lady calls me Baba.

We , birds also tire of flying sometimes and we land on the nearest safest perch. And we get to see so much happening around us , some of which we don’t understand.

My friend is also a bird. “My name is Ramu and I am a parrot” , he first introduced himself ! I felt lost , what was he saying ? He kept mouthing more gibberish and I looked away because it seemed like he was showing off ! After a bit , he returned to our bird language and we trotted along together , Ramu in his cage and me on the outside. Every time  we met , the first few lines would be what he had learnt the previous day and when he ran out of words in that strange language , he would slip back into our tiny world. We crows are an intelligent breed you see , birds with a brain , so I started recognising some words. I learnt some , but I am not a parrot , I cannot mimic even , let alone speak ! So I learnt that Ajay who is always moving around in that house is a man and Amma who never leaves her chair is a woman. And I watched how Ajay painstakingly taught Ramu new words everyday. They even had a conversation , it sounded so nice , I wanted to do so too with my family and friends around me , living in neighbouring trees. We get together several times in a day. We have so much to share in a language of our own.

So yesterday , after flying around for a while , I perched myself on the wall of some place , don’t know what it’s called and saw one man distributing food to many. We recognise food anywhere and I flew in there too , but they shooed me away. I went back to my perch. Suddenly they were all flying at each other in anger , trying to grab more food than was being given. I was stunned , nevertheless took my chance of trying to peck at the food that had been strewn on the floor , but they shooed me away again. I felt sad and flew away to another place and thought of the scene every morning , when The Man Ajay feeds us with crumbs of bread and sometimes some very tasty stuff.

It has become a habit now. We have a way of sensing time , we crows. My fellow crows and me wait on the branches of the trees or we fly around till we see him step out of the house with food in his hand. He pieces food into bits and lays them on the wall of the compound , looking around for us. I am sure he can’t recognise us one from the other , we all look the same. The one closest to the food swoops down and takes his pick or two and moves away. We take turns to land on the wall , sometimes waiting at a distance till our friend ahead of us is done. Sometimes , some of us don’t get any at all , its alright , we don’t fly at each other , we go looking for food elsewhere and when we do find some we caw out to our family and friends to come and share it with us. Period !Featured image

mythoughtlane :  The ‘food to the crows’ scene is not imaginary , I witness this every morning in my neighbourhood , amazed and left wondering at the same time.

#Espresso , my sleeping pill ?

One of those unusual past 10 pm nights when I was all geared up to watch an interesting and most recommended movie with my significant other ! Ha ha , unusual as in I dont relish watching movies on the small screen. But something was overtaking me as I tucked my feet up in my favourite sofa. Yes , I got a hint of it and walked to my kitchen to make myself an espresso shot , my past experience not holding. The aroma of the coffee filled my small kitchen and my olfactory senses told me I was in for a bit of that wonderful coffee luxury. Ten minutes after I had emptied my cup , ” that something overtaking me feeling ” did its job well ! I gave up , walked to my bedroom with a “sorry” hug to my significant other and fell into dreamworld in no time.

A few months ago , after an interesting evening of lovely conversations with a coffee addict friend , we both had shots of #Espresso and was warned by the friend since I ordered a double shot. We decided to see who would stay awake for how long and got home. It took me exactly twenty minutes after i reached home and change to fall asleep and I messaged a sleepy goodnight to my friend !

So is my thought line ( lane )  controlling the power of coffee ? Has it happened to others too ? Googling such behaviour didnt help find an answer. Just curious ( not worried , a double whammy to savour that magic potion and yet embrace sweet sleep ) , so share your views.espresso-coffee